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Monday

Please Explain This...


While some of us were appreciating and laughing at Nicki Minaj's acting debut on SNL, others were displeased to say the least. In today's society Black-American women constantly complain about how badly they are portrayed...so why do they do things like this? The Black Republic posted this reflection on her performance. 



Laughing With Us or At Us?

Being the homebody that I am, last night I tuned in to watch NBC’s “Saturday Night Live” with guest host Jesse Eisenberg from ‘The Social Network’ and musical guest Nicki Minaj. I love SNL, but it’s obvious that it has been struggling since the brilliant Tina Fey departed in 2006 as head writer. In any case, I still tune in from time to time if I like the guests and to see if the show has gotten any better.
There was a particular sketch last night that had black folks a bit agitated on Twitter, which I personally thought was worthy of a few laughs. The sketch included newcomer Jay Pharoah and Nicki Minaj in what was a ‘black’ rendition of Frankenstein, titled “Bride of Blackenstein.”
As in the original, Frankenstein (played by Pharoah) creates a bride (played by Minaj) for his newly-created monster (played by Kenan Thompson). As the bride comes to life, Frankenstein’s monster gleefully welcomes his new mate while he (and Frankenstein) marvels at the new bride’s “assets.” As the monster expresses his happiness and plans their future, the bride goes off in a so-called ‘independent, angry black woman’ type of rant. Stating that she has no ring on her finger, the bride retaliates every statement that the monster makes regarding their relationship.
At one point, the villagers of the town burst into Frankenstein’s lab to kill the monsters. However upon seeing the monster’s bride, a (white) male villager begins to ogle at the bride’s voluptuous backside, drawing him to complain about his (white) wife’s rather flat behind.
The skit wasn’t super hilarious, but it was funny. Some folks claimed that it reinforced black stereotypes by emphasizing Minaj’s over-inflated rear end as well as the ‘you-don’t-own-me’ dialogue between the bickering monster and bride. Seriously?? Anyone who’s ever watched SNL will understand that the show’s purpose is to parody, mock, and criticize through humor any and all topics ranging from politics, to race, to pop culture and beyond.
I find it extremely obnoxious that our community can feel free to talk about any other race or culture in its humor (sometimes crossing racism), but will be the first in line to cry afoul of someone not black, making a joke about our people or culture. People need to understand the difference between someone laughing ‘with us,’ rather than ‘at us’ in the realm of comedy. Regardless of whether people thought the skit was funny or not, they need to understand that SNL was laughing with us.
Besides, it’s not as if every single black person is doing a service to the community when they participate in or support programs, artists, shows, media, or any other medium that sets back the community 100 years. Remember “Flavor of Love” or “BET Uncut?” What about artists like Waka Flocka or Gucci Mane. I’m not saying that the community needs to make holier programming, or that everything produced for our audience needs to have a message. What I am saying is that people need to get off their high-horse and understand that sometimes it’s just all in good fun. And that maybe – just maybe – if we stopped continuing to support these so-called ‘stereotypical’ images in our culture, programs like SNL wouldn’t have anything to parody in the first place.
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Food for thought. I whole-heartedly agree... 


Tuesday

She Is...

Something Different
      I stay away from blogging about celeb gossip, because I feel like there are so many other sites that do that. However, I could NOT resist talking about Mrs. Carter. Not only is she one of the most beautiful women in the world, but babygirl is FIERCE! My friend disagrees, but I think she has actually stepped her game up lately. *sigh* Marriage life must be sweet :). Below are picks of Beyonce-or was it Sasha Fierce?-at Saturday night's screening of "I AM...World Tour" in NYC.

Bey wore a dress Naeem Khan and Christian Louboutin shoes.
 She's so gorgeous. 






She better werk!
Photos courtesy of The YBF



Saturday

style icon: Solange Knowles

After her appearances in the Lil Bow Wow video, I never paid much attention to Solange Knowles. Everyone knows she's always lived under the shadow of her sister. After I stopped sleeping on her, I got hip to how awesome she is. I loooooooove Solo for her neo-soul type music, artistic expressions, but mostly her fashion. She's just plain dope. So many of her choices inspire mine.





Solo said in her Refinery29 interview she "can't even fuck with you if your shoe game is slacking."
Solange if you're reading this: I will be a fan forever...iLove you, girl!!!! Oh, and can I get a personal interview? 

...although in my mind she and I are BFFs :)

Tuesday

guilty pleasures

Kan You Keep Up?
     No matter how much we try to front, the Kardashians all have a piece of us. I'm never up to watch the show on Sundays, but I do well staying current with the show.  We all love the KKs for totally different reasons.
I love and respect Kourtney for being the oldest child. As my mother's oldest I know how it is. I love her dysfunctional relationship with Scott. Most of all, I love her as the mother. I'm happy she still breast feeds lil Mason (who looks just like his uncle Robert). Celebs don't often do that for their own selfish reasons.
Kim is the fashionista whom I model some of my outfits after. She's effortless, so beautiful, and her body is on point (even though she's starting to go overboard with the plastic surgery). I wish she would stop lying about that. We can see what's what Kimmie.
Khloe, my favorite, is the average, down to earth, super cool one. I want to be good friends with her (weird?). I like how she's "regular" and doesn't go overboard to try to create an image or feed into what the media wants her to be. Watching the show, she seems like such a positive person...and OMG her closet is bananas!!!! iLOVE Khloe!
These sisters are fabulous! *snap, snap*

What we can all learn from the Kardashians:
     Embracing the hurtfulness.
People are constantly criticizing Kim about her plastic surgeries and inturn denies them. Khloe is always called "the ugly sister" or a drag queen or Chyna's twin. In stead of letting that get her down, she fights fire with fire. Once, she hosted a Khloe Kardashian drag queen look alike show for charity. When asked if she was preggers, she said "no I'm just fat." By doing thigs like this it takes all the joy out of the nay-sayers rant. I'm not saying we should go around talking bad or degrading ourselves, but laughing at the negativity and embrace us like we are.    
        Keep a THICK line between your relationships.
Family business is family business and shall remain so. Family in this sense can stems from actualy relatives, to friends, or coworkers. Kourtney has a hard time seperating her family life from her relationship with Scott. Her meddling mother doesn't make it better and feels the need to interceed "on behalf of her family." Scott says he has a tell-all book exposing family, and if it's true one can conclude Kourt has been blabbing her mouth about family business. The bottom line her is there are certain things that do/don't need to be shared beyond the dynamic in which they occur.

     We can all be famous.
Leaking our own sex tape could make us famous. I wouldn't recommend it, but it works...if that fails we can get an athlete! ...jokes

hmmmm...I wonder what my name would be if I Kardashianised it....